We Don't Need Men

 

Why We Don’t Need Men—But Do Need Them,

I know this might sound controversial to some, but bear with me for a moment. When I say "we don’t need men," people often misunderstand me. They assume I mean we can’t survive without them or that I’m some kind of man-hater. But that’s not it at all. Let me explain.

The phrase “we don’t need men” doesn’t mean we’re rejecting their existence. Of course, we need them in certain ways , like emotionally. The world can be hard enough as it is, and sometimes all we need is someone to be there, to listen, to console us when we’re feeling exhausted or overwhelmed. It’s not about survival, it’s about emotional support.

I believe that women can survive alone. We can make our own money, live independently, and thrive without the need for a romantic partner. The idea that we “need” men to survive is outdated. However, what we really need is someone who can be emotionally available, supportive, and genuine when we’re struggling.

This isn’t just about relationships with husbands or partners; it’s about fathers, brothers, and friends. Men should be there for us in the same way that we need to be there for them. I’ve heard it said that men are meant to take care of the "outside world" for women, while women nurture the "inside world" for men. The world is already tough on women, but it’s equally challenging for men. We need each other for emotional balance and mutual support.

People often confuse this with toxic feminism, but this has nothing to do with that. Feminism isn’t about being equal to men in every physical sense; it’s about having the same rights, opportunities, and respect. It’s about being able to express ourselves without fear of judgment.

So, no, I don’t hate men. But yes, we don’t need them to survive we need them to be there for us when it matters most.